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	<title>Comments on: saying no</title>
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	<description>what makes your lips kissable?</description>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
		<link>http://www.kissysmooth.com/2009/02/12/saying-no/comment-page-1/#comment-86</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 00:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Blast, I just wrote a comment and hit Post Comment, but forgot to fill in my name and email.  Anyway, Mabeloos, I am a flickr contact of yours (I asked you to post a picture with all the things packed into your bag) and today I am looking at your blog for the first time.  Your writing is excellent.  This post about work inspired me to comment; you seem wise beyond your years.  I think the things you expressed are felt by many people.  It reminds me a little of a line in a song by The Doors,    &quot;Trade in your hours for a handful of dimes...&quot;  It is sung with cynical rage by Jim Morrison.  I have felt that at  many jobs.  I have finally learned that you CAN say no.  You almost HAVE to say no, to draw a line. Your mental health is worth it!  Here is what I did:  I pushed back a little, then, seeing that I wasn&#039;t fired, pushed back a little more.   I set my boundaries and work on keeping them.    I appreciate the words and images you put out here on the internet...--Erin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Blast, I just wrote a comment and hit Post Comment, but forgot to fill in my name and email.  Anyway, Mabeloos, I am a flickr contact of yours (I asked you to post a picture with all the things packed into your bag) and today I am looking at your blog for the first time.  Your writing is excellent.  This post about work inspired me to comment; you seem wise beyond your years.  I think the things you expressed are felt by many people.  It reminds me a little of a line in a song by The Doors,    &#8220;Trade in your hours for a handful of dimes&#8230;&#8221;  It is sung with cynical rage by Jim Morrison.  I have felt that at  many jobs.  I have finally learned that you CAN say no.  You almost HAVE to say no, to draw a line. Your mental health is worth it!  Here is what I did:  I pushed back a little, then, seeing that I wasn&#8217;t fired, pushed back a little more.   I set my boundaries and work on keeping them.    I appreciate the words and images you put out here on the internet&#8230;&#8211;Erin</p>
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		<title>By: mi</title>
		<link>http://www.kissysmooth.com/2009/02/12/saying-no/comment-page-1/#comment-25</link>
		<dc:creator>mi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:20:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I become a braver person, I just might do that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I become a braver person, I just might do that.</p>
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		<title>By: Lanza</title>
		<link>http://www.kissysmooth.com/2009/02/12/saying-no/comment-page-1/#comment-20</link>
		<dc:creator>Lanza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 11:48:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just say no.
You might be surprised by the result.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just say no.<br />
You might be surprised by the result.</p>
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